BEHIND THE SCENES
To Amsterdam
Communication, communication and communication.
In any relationship, strong communication is paramount, but within the context of a polyamorous relationship, this foundational element becomes undeniably crucial for maintaining a healthy dynamic and achieving three times the success. And we all know by now that Koen is not the best communicator out there. So the first scene is all about Sylvia that the observator of an argument between the couple. An outsider. Literally and figuratively. This scene illustrates that it’s not always a garden of tranquillity and evenness in the relationship between Koen and Jutta.
Future of their relationship
Do you think deep in your heart and soul, this polyamory relationship we are having will work in the long term?”
“No, mistress.”
Jutta tries to bring the subject of their expection to the table. To safeguard herself, Sylvia has concluded, perhaps wrongly, that a lasting romantic relationship with both her master and her mistress is an impossibility. Because she knows it’s unlikely to happen, she’s trying to avoid getting her hopes up too high about something impossible.
Accident and impact
Koens’ parents were, in fact, very much alive when they perished in the flames. It’s bad enough for bad dreams. To cause an accident where a whole family dies as well is gruesome. A picture says more than a thousand words and Sylvia needed, perhaps a bit more than a thousand words, to describe what had happened that day.
His beloved Transit
The Transit Sylvia refers to is a Ford Transit from 1990. It’s not just Koens favourite van, it’s mine as well. I have driven a rental Transit in those days quite often, and loved it. The car makes more noise than a Harley Davidson motor, but it’s so much what a car in it’s bare essence should be. Have a look at it yourself.
Edging
In the next scene, Jutta employs erotic sexual denial as a method to enhance her authority over Sylvia. Her maintained state of sexual need and vulnerability predisposes her to a more compliant stance with her Mistress.
Orgasm denial practices provide a means for the dominant to exert power and dominance over multiple facets of the submissive’s life. Therefore, they are commonly integrated as extensions to, or refinements of, a more encompassing BDSM relationship, or are used as a method for initiating such a relationship, though this isn’t universally true. Allowing the dominant partner to experience pleasurable and at times strongly desired sensations of sexual dominance and erotic authority, while the submissive partner can derive satisfaction from profound feelings of sexual objectification and submission to the dominant.
Another application of orgasm denial is to enhance a submissive’s ability to withstand physical stimulation by practicing the restraint of climax or granting the submissive the ability to climax upon request.
Additionally, using erotic humiliation serves to strengthen the Jutta’s authority within the relationship. It is applied at the Jutta’s whim, and makes her dominance unpredictable.
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